wow I was going to read all the comments before responding But there are too many. I have to agree with Seven. Wtf.. dude you need to get your shit together my friend. All roles in this shit aside it is your obligation.... its what you are here for now.. To provide a better environment for you and your family. There is NO excuse for playing PS or any other game for any amount of time while you share a MOBILE home with so many people.
There comes a time in everybody's life when not listening to your heart, friends, and god help us POET is probably the wrong thing to do. Do you honestly need to solicit our opinions on whether or not you're doing what you need to be doing? Really dude? Come on....
You need to take the next step in your personal growth. Take responsibility for yourself and your family and lets get it on! Get the **** off the couch and go make the life you know you want and need. This time is pretty critical for you man. Its time to grow beyond what you have been.
I am the father of three. Twin 7 yr olds and a 18 yr step kid. I had him when I married 10 years ago. I was as you are now.. Well a bit more ... shall we say developed. But nevertheless it became apparent that nobody was going to do it for me. I stopped my KIDDY ways and began to see what I really wanted in life. I took a very small amount of time to figure which way I was going to go and went there. No schooling... just good common sense and listening to my instincts. Not the bullshit we utter in here but what I really knew I had to do.
Its time for you to do the same. You and your wife must work and you must pay a professional to care for your kid. You have to get your people on the same schedule. Your kid needs to sleep at night.. and you and your wife need to work during the day. And you make it work as we all have had too.
That's life in a nutshell buddy. Don't choke as it goes down. Once you've accomplished those things then you can say you're, not just a good father, but a good dad and husband.
Good luck my friend. The battles afoot. Its hard a battle. You will win. But first you must begin. Edited by ch0dezilla on 06-08-2008 00:52
dude if life came in a nut shell i would of cracked and eaten it all ready.....you lie chode it does not come in a nut shell...more like a pillbox with 50 cal stick out at you as you run up the beaches of normandy....
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